WAW roomate is telling me she is moving out..

[hangten]

Starsky and Holly I guess I am pursuing. I didn't see it that way. I Don't want to hurt my kids needlessly. I'm validating a lot of what my w says. I just don't agree with selling the house. I would like to know my w's plans for the kids. Where does she plan to live with my kids? I believe my w is throwing the fact that she wants to sell the house to pick a fight with me. I won't bite. I refuse to fight. I take all the comments my w says to me. I validate all her feelings.

I just don't understand how she can be so callous to the kids feelings in all of this. I sacriface alot for my kids... and the last 2 years I know I am picking up the majority of the kids duties. I happen to have enjoyed my time with the kids. I miss them when I don't see them. My kids are the ones missing their Mother. I have told my w that I enjoy it when the kids are happy to see their mom. I see now that I may be guilting my w. Those are not my intentions. I am trying to protect my kids. I'm not sure I'm comfortable exposing my kids to the pain I have had to endure. I undrestand I must just be there for the kids to pick up the pieces.