Originally Posted By: purgatory
Well, as usual, nhmom beat me to it smile

I too see a bunch of positives in your story. She asked *YOU* to drive with her, she knew that meant spendIng time alone with you... And she seemed comfortable with that.

Im sure 'Godzilla' was a surprise as well, but she didn't run away.

Some day I hope that can become a humorous family heirloom story. Although I don't think my S13 will like knowing how his Godzilla t-shirt played into the story!

Your squirrel is coming closer and closer, you just have to continue to be patient but at the same time GAL on your own path... Still haven't figured out how to stand still and move forward at the same time.


As shitty or hard as it is, we have to let go and then consciously decide to walk on alone. Not easy by any means. I wonder where I would have been if this board wasn't available. Whenever I needed a book to help me I used to stop myself in the store, meditate a bit and ask the universe to find me the book. It almost alwsys works that the first book I find id the one I need. I walked to this big a$$ bookshelve and reached for one book. It was MWD DB. I know you and these other great friends because of that one moment - changed my life.