Originally Posted By: TSquared2

I hear you...and it IS tiring (my W is starting to come out of it a bit...does your W maybe have SAD?), but, "nothing", "none"? Really?

I thought the same until I started keeping notes in my journal of ANY positives, no matter how small or whether or not if they had anything to do with me. For example, W started re-connecting with her family again...nothing to do with me, but a positive development regarding the depression side of things...

I know she has SAD, how bad it is, is hard to determine but it is probably no different to previous years and that was fairly mild.

For the positives - she is fine with everyone else, like I said it seems shes trying 'too hard' to laugh and joke and be extra friendly with everyone else (way above what she has EVER been like). There are just no positives towards me, theres not many negatives either - just neutralness.

Now the days are getting lighter and the suns out more we'll see how everything progresses, as I said to Mr B at least things haven't got worse so thats good, I guess she needs time to sort her head out.