"Not only has my H come back to me and our marriage, he's also come back to himself, the self that he was searching for."
I took this from something you posted on Livnlearn's thread ( I think !).
Excellent. I think that is the key to a successful reconcilliation, and true peace and happiness in the marriage. One MUST be content with oneself.
My H also tamed his demons and found his way back to his "true self." Actually, the man he has become is better than the one he was before the crisis. I genuinuely like this person -- and he likes himself.
