Divorce busting is tricky at the moment and for the last 3 months because NOTHING gets a positive reaction, it's either a neutral reaction or an angry reaction! Obviously I'm trying to avoid anything that makes her angry and trying to get a neutral reaction.
I hear you...and it IS tiring (my W is starting to come out of it a bit...does your W maybe have SAD?), but, "nothing", "none"? Really?
I thought the same until I started keeping notes in my journal of ANY positives, no matter how small or whether or not if they had anything to do with me. For example, W started re-connecting with her family again...nothing to do with me, but a positive development regarding the depression side of things...
When I get frustrated/tired/etc...I can see some progress via my documentation and this helps my PMA and detachment.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
