Vero, I think it's normal for to feel like you may be losing interest in your H. It's been 7 months for you and my guess is is that your emotions have taken their toll on you. At this point if I were you I wouldn't make any rash decisions regarding your M.

Not to hijack your thread but to give you perspective I have been "seperated"(my W is leaving at the end of March)for 6 months now for the third time in my almost 20 yr M. I have been working very hard on myself and have been following the DB principles and at this time my W still does not show any signs of wanting to reconcile. I know that this can be a very long process and that with her moving out soon she may get a dose of reality and see it's not that green on the other side but as each day passes I feel myself really letting her go and am starting to really think that I will enjoy my freedom when she is gone.

Take your time with this and continue to work on yourself and remember to be strong in front of him. You will know when and if you have totally lost interest in him.


M 44 W 43
S 23 S 15
INILWY 9/11
Divorce Mediation started 3/13
June 30 the day W is moving out