Such a good point Beatrice. I had certain signs earlier in my relationship with ex that I discarded as quirks. I won't make the same mistake twice. We all heal at our own pace, unfortunately it has taken me a long time.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11