Such a good point Beatrice. I had certain signs earlier in my relationship with ex that I discarded as quirks. I won't make the same mistake twice. We all heal at our own pace, unfortunately it has taken me a long time.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11