Learning as I go

[tested metal]

So I would like to know, how many people here have had full custody of their children after a D and how many haven't?

If you only see them on weekends, how have you coped with it? The thought of this being an extreme possibility for me is almost debilitating.

I am already grieving over the loss of the time that I already don't have with my daughter, but if W gets full custody and full child support, I may be doomed to not being able to see her on my visitation days, because I will have to work more to make child support payments. My finances with college loans are that bad right now, but will be different in 6 years. Possibly sooner if my application for the health corps goes through.

This isn't really about money to me but time, time I can spend with D1 or time I will have to work to pay child support, which takes away from time with D1.