Hi Ro, just wanted to say you made a good decision in setting up a session with Cheryl, she is the best. I have had two sessions with her and she has been extremely supportive, empathetic, and helpful. My challenge has been putting her suggestions into action as with most of the DB techniques they are easier said than done. Be ready to give her your history from start to finish is really the only preparation I would suggest. I am sure you will feel better after you talk to her, I was feeling no hope on both occasions when I've spoken with her and she had given me some good reasons to have hope by the time our call was finished.
Good Luck and God Bless!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!