I think the DB techniques are working. My W recently started to nag me again (which according to Michelle is a good sign...W hasn't completely given up). Though recently she lit into me AND our D's which I found intolerable. But I promised myself not to scream and reminded her that she wasn't be fair (she actually calmed down a little after this). During her nap I did a lot of extra house work (since her initial bomb in late June I really tried to do more around the house). W said she wanted counseling and that it was up to me to set an appointment (which I did). She even was affectionate to me (we had sex for the first time in weeks). I'm still trying the 180s (recently started watching her chick show with her...something I never do...on the other side of the couch...trying not to be pushy). Still working on the 180s and trying not to be impatient. Waiting for next pay period to set up coaching session.
