You are correct. I do need to go forward. I will always have a small degree of hope that ex will see the light, but I don't expect it. My journey has been long, like many, and I have made steps to continue it without ex. You are not being mean, just realistic.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11