Jeannine, You are a gem. What a kind spirited heart you have.
The answer to your question is NO. I can't forget about the OW because my H has given me NO idication by his actions that he is rid of the scag. Until he starts acting like your H or T2's and acts like he is totally in love with me I will NOT believe it's over.
He has given me NO idication by his actions that it is. Only his LAME answer that he is done with her.LIE. LIE, LIE!
I've heard that TOO many times to believe it by the way he's acting. You must remember I've been through this SEVERAL times with him and you learn to know the lingo, the lies, the empty promises.
PLEASE do not discount me by saying I'm not ready. I'm MORE than ready Jeannine. He has not given me any indication that the R with her is over by his actions.
You know that gut feeling? Do younot believe in it? Every SINGLE time I've had it it's been right. It's what you had when you first thought what your H was doing.
I've been at this a very long time remember.
My H still does the cell phone thing where he puts it on vibrate, or leaves it in his car. PAAAA-leeez!! My Gawd woman, I KNOW the SIGNS!
When and IF he stops this wishy washy crap and back and forth I MIGHT or might not be there for him.
Jeannine, I'm DAMN tired of being LIED to.
Every single sign is there. Every one. What am I to do?
Hide my head in the sand like I've done for 2 yrs and found out he was lying to me??
I seriously doubt what ever the man would do would EVER make me trust him again.
Maybe if she dies, I would believe he wasn't screwing her.
Short of that, I'm sorry I've been in denial for a LONG time, and it's awakening time for me.
He's doing EVERY single thing a man in an A is doing.
I'm not going to give him his cake anymore.
YES, I'M pissed. My D just called my brothers to see if I was here. I am. She called my H and asked him where I was. He said he didn't know where I was. Well the A## hole was suppose to call me to tell me how to get to S's basketball game tomorrow, and tell me if the crawl space was flooded.
Do you think the A## would call me? No he's a F'ing die hard, that won't call me because I'm not calling him. It's ALL about control for him.
He's a jerk and I don't know what the hell I'm doing even caring a whit about him.
Oh I'm ticked! Sorry Jeannine, but I know you can handle it-you've been here. Rachael
