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[antlers]

Perhaps, next time, a "that's wonderful", or, an "I'm glad your mom's happy now", is better than an "I don't want to hear about it anymore".

I had lunch with my youngest daughter the last couple of days. On the first day she told me several times just how happy her mom is with 'Steve'. I told her that "I wish your mom health, happiness, and love". I can't describe how it felt to say that, and mean it, to our daughter. All I can say is that it felt good. Still does. And it helps me 'let go' of those things that are unhealthy for me to hang on to.

I also sent the following to my ex..........

"Ex, I'm happy that you found love again. After all, you are someone who has meant a lot in my life, and you're the mother of my children. I want happiness and love for you.
antlers"

I felt, and still do, the same thing that I described above.