For me it was "I can't hug or kiss you, because it feels like a lie."
It's especially hard for me, since I now know that my love language is touch and physical affection, and J was always physically affectionate in the hugging/kissing arena.
It is pretty amazing that so many people read from the same script in the same way.
My best wishes to us all as we work on ourselves, GAL, and try to turn our marriage around.
