Well H. had appt. with L today, then emailed me that we will have divorce decree in our hands April 12th. Great, just seems so easy for him, but that is how he is. Mr. Efficiancy. Feels like 1,0000 daggers a day. I just need to somehow look forward and have a belief that things will feel better.
So sorry you find yourself here. I know how much it hurts. I am wondering why you are being so passive and going along with everything H wants. What about you? You could have your L contest the terms of the D if they are not what you agree with. This would give you at least another year before it goes to trial or becomes final. I live in WA too.