It amazes me that the things these guys say are all the same! I heard every one of those things your H said. Every one!
He still does not feel like our home is home to him.
All these things that he says add up to me that he is still involved with OW.
He has a pretty bad track record, so I'd say there's a good chance of it.
Something is keeping him from commiting. He gets real close and then he turns cold.
I think it's her influence over him. He's torn in two directions, hense the relief he feels when I back off and his reluctance to anitiate any contact.
Maybe he feels that if he's not living with me and not seeing me he's not doing something as bad.
I think he does have a conscious, but not enough to break it totally off with OW. He's to weak.
I have no tangible proof, but come on! Every single sign is there. All the same ones you got from your H.
What am I to do but detach from it?
I CANNOT change what he's doing. I've tried for a LONG time and NOTHING I do helps.
I could say what I feel about these H's that cheat and the women that entice them,but I might get thrown off this bb!