Hey BM, Thanks so much for this. It really helps to know someone is out there.

But it gets worse!

Just received two emails in quick succession from H saying that I must now take the kids out of their schools mid-term and prepare to sell the house immediately.

He will no longer be contributing any payments to the mortgage or school fees.

And this is because I would not agree to entering into a new lease for a 2nd BMW 5 series!!!!

He is insisting on coming over tonight to break the news to the children.

Any ideas on how to DB in the face of this?