HI Clinging. I think, you need to work on your poker face. I have the same issue. Although, I don't think of my XW on a daily basis and I am NOT jealous of her new dude, it is INCREDIBLY uncomfortable when she brings him to my son's baseball games.
Hey...I grab my glove, get out behind the plate, and warm him up, or, get back in the dugout and keep coaching with the manager.
I think, even in the best of worlds, you adapt,but, as I said in a recent post, some areas may never adjust. So, you find a way to make it work. Perhaps, next time, a "that's wonderful", or, an "I'm glad your mom's happy now", is better than an "I don't want to hear about it anymore".
Just a thought.
Something to think about over your next hot cup of joe. As my other buddy here told me...something HIS dad told him that HE tells his son now, and, I TELL MY SON NOW: "Tough times don't last. Tough men do".
Always recall my friends here. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;