I sure hear you about being told about ex's antics. At least in the early years (now I don't care). I finally told the kids not to tell me. That time away from it actually did bring me peace.
Well - you can't go wrong with Disney World. I took the kids there every year and often stayed a month or so. If you need any ideas - I'm the girl! My daughter just went to Harry Potter last week and loved it!
So am I your best friend???? I am now in Fort Myers as a snowbird. I LOVE FLorida and just can't get enough. Back to Disney tommorrow for a couple of days then have friends coming from Key West, Rhode Island and New Brunswick for the w/e.
Anyway - making plans. Moving fwd. It is getting better.