I agree with Mr. Bond. I feel like I'm a point where I might have advice for the newcomers page, but not here yet. I do read yours though, since I see similarities, but your ahead in progress.
I'm cheering you on, even if you can't hear me.
Me-36 H-37 D11 S8 S6 M9 T19 ILYNILWY 11/10 discover EA 02/11 discover EA is really PA/H moved out 03/11 H wants to go to counselling,piecing 12/11 Find out still OW(plural), I'm officially done/detached 04/12