"Wouldn't there be a better chance that she would she would appreciate me if I wasn't here to pitch in with the house and kids while she acts like a zombie?"
Forget about her for bit. Do you want to move? If not, then don't. Simple as that. Don't move because you want to make a point or that you think she'll miss you, etc. Start doing things that YOU want to do and not her.
BTW, I am a strong believer that your user name should reflect the person who you want to be. If you keep calling yourself "Sad in WI", you will always be "sad in WI". Change your name into something much more positive. Little steps like that go a long way into changing your thinking.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
