Well today we met for lunch. Had a nice time. Chatted a bit. I got this fancy new toilet water that she said smells really nice...aqua di gio or something like that. So that step in the 37 surely works We also established some guidelines for when she will be with our S. The W will pick him up as usual after the sitters with the parameter that she will stay until his bedtime or until I get home from work. If she can't do either, we will utilize or normal sitter. No unannounced visits, but the W is welcomed to the house at any time. It would appear that the W will see him 3 times per week, but it will be a rather set schedule and I know our S likes consistency. Thanks for the advice purgatory.
We also established some guidelines for when she will be with our S. The W will pick him up as usual after the sitters with the parameter that she will stay until his bedtime or until I get home from work. If she can't do either, we will utilize or normal sitter. No unannounced visits, but the W is welcomed to the house at any time. It would appear that the W will see him 3 times per week, but it will be a rather set schedule and I know our S likes consistency. Thanks for the advice purgatory.