Why do you feel you have to leave any way? And don't use the tired excuse of "to give her space". The only way to get back a connection is to be there with her and cooperate.
Mr Bond,
This is the fight in my head. I am giving you space, but then I see you in the morning and after work. Wouldn't there be a better chance that she would she would appreciate me if I wasn't here to pitch in with the house and kids while she acts like a zombie?
