So, I've been discussing my situation in another divorce forum and alot of posters think I should try to discuss my feelings with my husband. There was one poster who had the exact situation I am in and with her giving her husband some space, he, in turn, felt like she was giving up on the marriage and went ahead with the divorce.
They say I should protect myself and talk to a lawyer. That's probably good advice..I will probably need to do that as he has already sought a consultation.
And they also say that if he really wants this, then no amount of me changing will do anything. And I guess I could see that too, but I believe in my heart that this can be fixed.
Should I really just let it get to the point where it's so bad that I just go on living my life?? At this point in time, I don't want to live a life without him and that's what's making all of this so very hard.
