Some nice things the L said was that he believes she will be back 6 months after the D. He said he would almost guarantee it.
You know - frankly, this seems like an odd thing for an attorney to say at a first meeting. Might be some projecting or wishful thinking on his part.
Not saying it won't happen - just that it doesn't seem that professional of him to jump to that conclusion at a first meeting.
It is important for you to find out what a court most likely would consider a fair settlement, then try to negotiate that with her to save money on attorneys.
Don't be penny-wise and pound foolish - NOT getting good legal advice will cost you a lot more in the long run.
Do you guys have any debt? Do you know what she is proposing as far as child support/custody issues?
