Am I arrogant or thinking I'm not good enough? I'm hearing both. Those seem contradictory.
Actually, they may not be. I am often both and believe that they are two sides of the same coin. When I am feeling less than and not good enough, I often over-react or act out aggressively to overcompensate for the fact that I don't feel good about myself. When I am at peace with myself, I don't need to be either. This seems like a common enough human theme and a good topic for IC --at least it was for me.
Mimi
M:37; H:37; M:10 years;T:13 years;no kids. Bomb ("I love you, but don't feel things for you I should":1/08/12 Separated (H living with various friends:1/18/12 Separated (H rented his own apartment:3/4/12
