Right, I agree Oldtimer. I was just reflecting that I have "reacted strongly" when people were off base. If you wrote me five long posts about the fact that my W didn't like sex because I was gay and am not admitting it, eventually it WILL get to me because you're not giving up and are effectively telling everyone why you think I'm gay over and over again. Just because I react strongly to that doesn't mean I'm gay.

It's a silly argument anyway because I agree with you, and I think your feedback to CV has been valuable. I would expect that some of it is right on target, and some maybe less so, but all valuable.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015