Just needed to get this out. Otherwise H will have an email in his inbox in the next 5 minutes.
Been re-reading some of sandi2's old posts. Man her H has the patience of Job.
I'm not sure I could wait two years for my H's A to end, and him to be ready to work on the M. In fact I KNOW I can't. As a fixer, it's so frustrating to not being able to fix my M. Moving on...
And I know some of you will say it's all about detaching, GALing and all that. GALing until I'm blue in the face doesn't remove the fact from my mind (and heart) that my H has chosen someone over me. And basically doesn't seem to care that I know it, so he continues. I guess it would be easier to detach if he wasn't still living at home. But I've read that having the WAS still in the home can help with R.
I just don't know how to detach with him still there acting like nothing is wrong. GALing doesn't help when I come home to Ward Cleaver.
