Shame says to me that you have more control over your actions. Is like having an A and feeling bad afterwards. Maybe I am wrong I dunno. If you had psychosis and didn;t remember the stuff you said while psychotic you probably would have no shame. I have also noticed that when DBers don't post for a while they get into trouble. It tells me that they think they got it under control, but they come back and things are always worse. just some things to think about
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”