Why don't you tell us the answer to your question.

Your phrasing just there sounded aggressive, and was a tactic my H often used to shut down a conversation he wanted to avoid. Find a nitpicky thing to deflect the point and go on the offensive.

Why not take a look through your own words and see if any of them looked arrogant to you? And see if there were also any that suggested you have trouble with thinking you're not good enough. One can be a mask for the other. But we don't know you that well. Why not digest what was said for a while to absorb what value you can find in it before arguing with it?

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.