Someone challenged me about the feelings of shame. What are you ashamed of? I have had my own meltdowns mostly in anger. Let me ask you, can u control you meltdowns? When I got angry, I felt out of control, but TBH I gave myself permission, I wanted to be angry and have a meltdown. I don't have Aperger's DX.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden