Thanks guys, I appreciate everyone's feedback. I agree with you oldtimer, I do need to get my stuff out, but given my mental state I think it is in my best interests to give it another week at least to get my mind right about this interaction. The funny thing is, she sent me an email and I didn't respond, then she texted me and I didn't respond, and she absolutely started blowing my phone up. I am keeping my cool but she is losing hers, that's a nice change...
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!