Indecision and the affair continues (part 3)

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Our kids (sadly) are used to him being gone. If anything, they are excited he may get a new place. I don't think they'll get it until he actually moves out.

I had drinks with a friend of mine on Saturday. She said her kids are actually very happy living with her as a single mom. Their dad visits occasionally from another state but he's a "fun dad" and they now as teenagers can see that they've been better off with the stability of their mom.

I continue to believe that things have to "hit the fan" for anything to change. (told H that last night) I let him sit on his fence for too long.

I've detached and am okay with whatever happens...at this point, I need to do this.