Yes, it is amazing how much sameness there is as you read the threads. You can predict what is going to happen. (But yet always be suprised at the different crazy stuff they come up with!)
My H was a helicopter pilot and I have never understood why women think being a pilot is so hot! I had some other officer's wife tell me that I married him because he was a pilot.
I was offended. I married him when we still had 2 years of college left. We both paid our own way for college and got comissioned together the day we grwaduated from college.
I feel the way you do: I have talked my friends to death. And they want me to just divorce him and move on. If only I still ddn't love the fool!
I have a big empty house, too. My oldest comes by with his girls and wife often. She works only a mile from our house. I am always glad to see them.
Take Care,
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!