Been offline a lot this weekend and catching up now. You've got a lot of good feedback and since I'm no wise sage, I'll just let you know that your ability to stay calm and centered is so incredibly admirable and I appreciate the example.
NH is right. Its not up to you to fix her. You can certainly be there if she reaches out, but she's going to have to do that and maybe this was her way of starting(?)
I'm with WHG, my W has trauma from the past that I see similar "victim" and hopeless behavior from W. She once made the comment to me that "it just wasn't in the cards for her to be happy".
I'm pulling for you. Be a postive influence where you. Sounds like you've got some great boys to take care of.
Keep taking care of yourself. Its got to be the best way for you to take care of the others in your life.
(ok, virtual hugs from guys don't seem to work so I'll have to figure out some type of keystroke for a fist bump!)
Thanks Ces...you're The Man
@@ i tried to create a fist bump logo maybe f...b for fist bump?
