Thanks Starsky for your help and encouragment. I am protected both llegally and financially. He tried to lie to the court of actual separation date to speed up the divorce. I live in NC and there is a 1 year waiting period in case of possible reconiliation. I contacted the court and put the correct date. I pray with all my heart that he has awakening and he comes to his senses before the years end. I undertand I did I have a role in our separation and I am coming to terms with my acts. I would like to discuss this with him, but I have to come to realize that he wants nothing to do with me. I will give him his time and space and focus on myself getting better and emotional strong.
