Keeping the Kids Out of It

[PrincessP]

Thank you.

I have read the Divorce Remedy, and that is how I learned about the 180 and LRT methods. I am working on them already but it really has been a little over a week.

I am going to talk with my therapist tonight about how to address my concerns about our child with H in a responsible and respectful way. I totally get why he is doing this; he wants power and control over his destiny, and he wants to bring our D along for the ride. He thinks I am a mean person and I am incapable of being nice to anyone. He is trying to create a happy little family for himself. He is manipulating our child and has been for a while, even before he walked out the door. No matter what I am always going to be our child’s mom, and showing her a new woman now or even down the road is not going to change that.

I would love to hear your thoughts on how to DB in this situation and after the concern is voiced.