And after another sleepless night I almost forgot... Read the six stages of the MLC and think beyond a shadow of a doubt my life is in the midst of an MLC. She has a plethora of issues from her childhood she has never addressed, is now a single mother of a 16, 11, and 7 year old, had plastic surgery in 2010, got involved with OM, everything lines up. She really seems like an MLC/WAS hybrid as she obviously was plotting her exit strategy for a little bit anyway.

So I am really 6 months into this battle and have been doing all the wrong things all this time. There are 6 months until a divorce petition can be filed. Although I am still an emotional wreck I know that I have no choice but to do the right things, and as per my discussions with DB coach Cheryl she thinks that eventually the tides will change given my W's history.

What do you guys think, is six months of doing the wrong things too much water under the bridge? Should I pick up the TV this evening as a stake in the ground or delay? My gut says to delay at this point, thanks again folks very rough night and rough day today :-(


me 38
W 30
T 3
M in 05/2010
Separated 08/2011
Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8
I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5
Anxiously waiting on the judge!