Have a tentative meeting with W this evening to pick up the LCD TV that have been letting her borrow since I moved from our marital home. She sent me an email confirming what time I will be by to pick it up. I haven't responded and don't want to for 180 purposes.
I think I am going to delay with a change of plans notification for a couple of reasons. 1) I don't really want to see or talk to her today 2) If I give it a couple more weeks perhaps her mood will improve somewhat. 3) This gives me an opportunity to share the fact I am going to be out of town the next two weekends as related to picking up the rest of my stuff, to hopefully get her gears turning as to what I'm doing.
But then again, if I do pick up the TV today it is a clear indicator that my coddling of her is coming to a close and I am moving on.
Any suggestions, what would you guys do, do it today or delay? I'm thinking delay would be the best bet, perhaps give her more time to work out the car financing details and take care of everything in one big swoop.
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!
