AS I was reading WHG's response,(who's been down a long hard road, read his threads) it came to me that you have not accepted your W's point of view.

You think she's wrong, confused, a little crazy. Yes?

Her POV is 100% correct to her right now, just as your's is 100% correct to you.

Until you accept that she's right, won't move forward

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss