Sandi,

Just wanted to say I really appreciated your two latest posts here. So very meaningful for me. My MC told me that I face the same choice now that you did then. Accept that W will never change, will never provide what I have believed I need from this marriage. If I cannot accept, then I need to leave. Reading how you went through that and how you thought about it was very helpful.

Accuray


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015