It's been 7 years for me too, DavidA, so I understand. This year is the year it ends for me. I'm done. My H will have to jump through a lot of hoops for me to believe he would want me.

You are lucky that you have gotten D'ed already, and have no real ties, except with the children. I still have to go through all that, and am not looking forward to it.

Take care, and good luck with your new life.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim