It's been 7 years for me too, DavidA, so I understand. This year is the year it ends for me. I'm done. My H will have to jump through a lot of hoops for me to believe he would want me.
You are lucky that you have gotten D'ed already, and have no real ties, except with the children. I still have to go through all that, and am not looking forward to it.
Take care, and good luck with your new life.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim