Tad's Overdue Update

[tadpole1025]

Thank you Snodderly. I appreciate the insight.

Just a quick update:

Found out from S17 that XW has been telling our sons that I cheated on her when I used to be on the radio. As God as my witness, I have NEVER cheated on her. I honored my vows. She says that she "heard it from somebody" but won't say who she heard it from. She can't say because it NEVER happened. She has accused me in the past of brainwashing our sons against her, but I now ask: who is doing the brainwashing with this made up story? And....why would she?

As for our "relationship", there isn't one. I have not seen or spoken to her since right before Christmas. She has sent a few nasty texts, but I think she has given up since I no longer respond to them.

She is kicking S26 out soon because she has to downsize to a smaller apartment because she can't afford the rent since I am "making her pay child support." The interesting thing is: S17 tells me that she spends money like crazy. She just bought OM's car and a brand new laptop. She wanted to take S17 to Seaworld on Spring Break, but now says that she can't because she can't afford it. She is also nearly $60,000 in debt because of student loans. I'm convinced that she will end up being a career student. Her sister and brother are also still in school. Whatever.

She wanted S17 this weekend, but he told her that he wanted to stay with me because I was going to help him write a paper. She tried to talk him into going with her so she could help him, but it didn't work. Even though the divorce papers say "every other weekend", she has had him almost EVERY weekend. I think I may start demanding that we follow the judgement.

As for me, I am in the process of filing for bankruptcy. This crap not only killed me emotionally, but financially as well. Rebuilding is taking a very long time.

I'm doing okay, but the last few days I have felt depression settling back in. Not sure why because I am still on the anti-depressants.

Just wanted to update.

Tad