Originally Posted By: Crazyville
I need to know how to WANT to invest in him, to want to [b]sacrifice]b] for him.


I would warn ANYONE to be very, very careful about following a path of sacrifice.

True sacrifice is an act of unconditional love.

True sacrifice is not a selfish act, it is a selfless act.

At risk of using language of judgement here, I have witnessed very few pure acts of sacrifice.

My opinion is, DO NOT SACRIFICE YOURSELF, unless you are able to do so without expectations and without resentment due to unfulfilled expectations.

That would be unfair to yourself and to your S.