NHAMPSTERMOM.....your message is very timely because as the day has moved and she reached out again later today i am needing to hear other opi ions. What you say makes a ton of sense. I need to give your thoughts a lot of consideration.

I am very concerned about the damage being done right now, and you're also right that despite her state of mind, the guilt is enormous for her. Her mind and soul are indeep turmoil,however her heart has always been pure. So, on top of her turmoil her heart is suffering.

Thanks Hon!