Hi I am new to this. My H unexpectdly kicked me out of the H week before x-mas. We had friends over at the house that evening, he had to much to drink. When they left he went ballistic and threw me out. I tried to come home the next day hoping that he would be remorseful; We've been separated since meanwhile I've rented a house, I did not speak to him for an entire 1.5 months until I got D papers; lying about the separation date to speed up the process. I was angry and wanted a answer for his behavior, he told me to move on with my life and that everything was my fault. He would not be specific. He is NOT having an affair, BTW. I've had 2 phone sessions, helpful. Coach wanted me to write a letter; which he refuses to read. He's very cold. We do have a 15 year old son. Any replies would be helpful.