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I guess it was her, her father, her uncle, and her sister that all came to help. a little excessive for the stuff that she took.


Yes, she brought her family army for backup.

You need to have things planned that will keep you out of the house and busy. Don't stay there drowning in memories or "what may have been".

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!