So sorry you are sick again and missed your birthday date. Boo Hoo! But you wouldn't want to give the bug to SDA lady on her only day off either. That would be bad.

So what is up with your immune system? Seems you are frequently ill. Those endorphins should be helping (unless you're not sleeping enough). Bump up your vitamin C and eat properly. Lots of veggies and get your protein. (echoing my daughter here).

Enjoy your "Me Day" - you need it.

And I'm sure it is distressing to see your ex and the girls getting into it but trust me - it is SO normal. My D and I have always been close but we fought like cats n dogs while she grew up. Still do on occasion but I mostly bite my tongue since we're not together so much anymore and I sure miss her.

Take care and get better.

Barb