I told her on Wednesday night that I would leave the house since it appears there is no hope of saving the R, and she became hysterical, telling me that I had to stay for the kids.
Just curious, but has she said what she wants in the future? Does she want you to remain in the home and her be D from you? Have you asked?
Sandi2,
As I said she wants to be friends. When I was old on Wednesday Night she was drunk and told me she did not love me anymore. And whst if her soul mate is out there. Tuesday she told me shw wanted space and that she is sorry for being so f**** up. W was sexually abused from 8-12 from stepdad and it seems every other spring she has to shake her life up. She has been to counseling regarding same. Told her we could get through this and that I don't think she is messed up.
She has not discuessed the future with me or much of anything. Small talk between us, but nothing else. Wrestling with the kids but ignoring me. I tried to join in, but she pulled back.
