Going through your post I see your W doing several 180's in a short span. Rick, she is incredibly confused and from my rather limited point of view, she still loves you and is not ready to leave. Perhaps she is acting out like this because she sees you hurting and waiting. She does not want to be the cause of you discontent. Again, you are at a point where you decide to "stand" or lovingly let her go and build a new life for you and the kiddo's.
For what its worth - my expertise is way limited! I have no children and my sitch is relatively cut and dry.
Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13
